Sorry, I'm not a moderator, but I wanted to respond anyway.
If you feel like you are doing what's right for you, then you are doing the right thing. It doesn't matter what we say here. What matters is what your head, heart and instinct say.
If you are willing to give it time, be patient and see where things go......then that is what you need to do.
You're right, we only see one side of the story on here. We don't know your H at all. He very well could be sincere in his efforts to want to be with you.
I guess what I am saying is be true to yourself. That's always the right answer.
~SE
I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.
Me-32 WAH-35 DD-11 DS-4 H left 11-03 Piecing- 12/04 WAH again- 03/07 Married 12 years Divorce final May 15, 2007