Jeez.....H doesn't seem to want to make any moves back towards you other then when it is convenient for him. As an outsider, I hate to say this and be so negative, it really seems like he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
I would continue with the things you said you were going to continue with. GAL, work on you still, and don't get attached to an outcome with H.
My H used to ask me all the time how things were going with my b/f. I guess that's their way of testing our temperatures.
So, focus on you and your happiness. Keep on moving along and let H deal with his own issues and come to terms with what he wants to do on his own. Now that he is around more, have you tried creating some mystery? If not, maybe the next time he wants to visit, have plans made. Make sure that you DO go out and do something when you say you are. There are so many things you can do to create a little mystery and get them thinking. However, I tread lightly with this because I am anti-manipulation and some of it, in my opinion, borders on manipulation.
Well, guess I wasn't much help here.....sorry
~SE
I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.
Me-32 WAH-35 DD-11 DS-4 H left 11-03 Piecing- 12/04 WAH again- 03/07 Married 12 years Divorce final May 15, 2007
