It sounds to me like your H is either trying to have his last hurrah, or that he may infact be confused. I hate to ask this, but has there been any steps toward a D? COuld his motivation behind this be for something other then being genuine? Does he stand to lose a lot in the D?
I'm not trying to sound negative, although I am doing a fine job of it, but your H's behaviors are a bit suspicious for someone who wants to reconcile. Even if he wanted to take things slowly with you, he is still dating other people and cheating on OW.
I'm praying that his intentions are sincere for your sake and that he gets his head out of his @ss soon!
I'm sorry I couldn't be of more help, like I said I find his behavior very suspicious. But, that's just my opinion.
~SE
I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.
Me-32 WAH-35 DD-11 DS-4 H left 11-03 Piecing- 12/04 WAH again- 03/07 Married 12 years Divorce final May 15, 2007
