Quote: I see now is that a MAJOR roadblock was just REMOVED. The OM is history. HALLELUJAH!
That's what she told her dad today and I DID check 0ur mail logs and he has not e-mailed her since Jan 26th. She has sent e-mails since then up till Feb 1 but there have been no repies since that date. Now, will he pop back up again?
Quote: Now of course you were disheartened by your FIL's words but remember, he's not a DBer and he doesn't really know anything other than what his daughter SAID.
Yes, the biggest issue is that he is so convinced he knows the sitch so he will 'tell me' that I need to 'move on'.
Quote: Remember: Believe none of what you hear. WAWs (even if they still live under the same roof) will talk so much about leaving and becoming independent but it is mostly to convince themselves they're going to do it. The more talking they do, the less sure of it they are. I speak from experience.
Yes, I know this also but wasn't thinking it at all. Amy, did you ever get a book on how to do a divorce?
I knew I shouldn't put too much on his comments but he is soooo convincing. This was around 1;30 or so and I posted then had to pull myself through the rest of the day.
And then at about 5 PM, the SH*T hit the fan! I'll start a new post for this story, it's beyond insane.
Quote: You still have a lot going for you. You can still turn this all around. I really believe that about your sitch.
ok THIS is where the heavy hitting DB'ing now happens, tonites events which I'm putting into a new thread because the fan has been hit! [QUOTE] Anyway, mine is just one bird's eye view but I definitely would not count Frank_D out of the DBing game just yet.