I apologize for my remarks. I do understand how they could be considered to be sexist and derogatory. I was communicating as if it was an men-only "shooting-the-breeze" gathering, at an informal venue - such as in a bar. The contents should've been expressed in a more appropriate manner. It is too late for me to edit my comments, but for the record, I meant to say:
"Why didn't you accept your W's intimate insinuations, and pursue a physical engagement with her?"