Your questions are easier to answer if you read my original sitch, and some subsequent ones. A lot has changed but is is SHE who pushes for divorce.
You really should read this. If nothing else but to see someone go waaaay far into the WAW world of fantasy love then slowly come back to where we are now. Wherever that is. Plus, OM is an 'Emotional Predator' and we get to see it develop, the bizarre stories and lies.
I should write a book, you could NOT make this stuff up. If it wasn't MY LIFE I would probably laugh at it. As it is I cry more than I laugh. But, I will be fine now.
So, grab a cup of coffee and read, weep and be amazed...
