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I know it is controlling but how do we get our W to read something like this?

We don't. They have to figure it out on their own.

OR

Next time they are on the rebound, go through the list with them. Discuss his behaviors.

I also got some ideas from the 'Beat Your Affair' book. He said to make 'safe' questions to get W to think about odd stuff.

for example:

Isn't it interesting that he knows so much about you, I bet you know him like a book too!

or for an interest he has that is an exact one of hers....
"How long has he been into xxxx?" Longer than you? Then he must know yyy?"

Something like that. Basically innocent questions that chip away at his authenticity.


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