Dear Frank,

I really, really had good intentions writing what I did but now need to say...damn, but isn't letting go THE difficult part, THE moment of standing on the edge of the cliff hoping that when you jump, a safety net of some kind is waiting? We are all taking that HUGE leap of faith when we get to this point and I would never, ever want to dismiss or minimize the difficulty and pain of this particular point along the path, nor sink into platitudes or cliches. So...please know that when I (or others)say it's obivious you are truly trying to go from survival mode into 'walking the walk', I mean it and respect your courage, conviction, and humility (openess to learning new things about yourself IS humility, is it not?).

with love,
Kaly