i think you know how I feel about your situtasion. But maybe there is a point. Your not like me. If you left and met a great girl and your wife kept on with OM and a year went by you might go back. i dont know but I think so. Thats your choice and for you it could be great. But look at all the great things you would have enjoyed for that year. And maybe at that you could see more clear as well as your wife. I think in situations like yours a given amount of time and then you move forward and let what will be will be handle the rest. But its that hope and all that stuff I TRULY believe kills the human spirit and crushes the heart. \
once the mind moves on th eheart can follow. I hope you see my point. I think I have said this before.
