Quote: I don't know, maybe it's me, but I don't think people who want a divorce DO things like this with their spouse. I mean, I would do backflips if my H. would come over and go through some old photo albums with me right now.
Her and GF and D15 and BF were looking at photos. I happened to walk into the room and stopped and looked too. Sorry, I made it sound like SHE AND I were doing it. Not true. We don't do things like that 'together'. The recent Kayaking trip and Camping were 'for the kids'.
Quote: I know you think your situation is really bad because your wife keeps saying she wants a divorce, but I read your posts and I don't get the impression that your marriage is only hanging on by a thread. You see her and spend a lot of time with her. I think your wife is just frustrated and is trying to ease that with this online relationship she's got going.
I do see her, I don't spend a lot of time with her. Maybe 1/2 hour at dinner time, maybe 1/2 hour during kids bedtime. Maybe 1/2 hour in the morning while kids get ready for school. Occasional 5 minutes here and there during the days. Occasional 10 minutes if she has an issue to discuss.
The 'online' relationship was already physical once, and she will do it again when it can be arranged. She's "In Love'.
Quote: I'm not trying to make light of your problem, honestly. But I think you have a lot of positive interaction with her; far more than most of us here. I have a lot of hope for you; I still think if you hang in there, she's going to come around.
You're not making light of it, I know what you meant and I appreciate it. My impressions are of course much more negative because I live here and I want more than I am getting. And she is 'In Love' with someone else. Period. She fills her 'empty' time when she has nothing else she has to do with either reading novels, or e-mail/IM with OM. Not talking to me.
