Today while her GF was over, D15's BF was here and we all spent time looking through various photo albums of the girls when they were younger. From time to time W and I exchanged smiles at certain pictures, or memories. I guess our life wasn't all hell after all. And I guess we'll always have THAT connection. Frank,
I don't know, maybe it's me, but I don't think people who want a divorce DO things like this with their spouse. I mean, I would do backflips if my H. would come over and go through some old photo albums with me right now. I haven't seen him in over 2 weeks.
I know you think your situation is really bad because your wife keeps saying she wants a divorce, but I read your posts and I don't get the impression that your marriage is only hanging on by a thread. You see her and spend a lot of time with her. I think your wife is just frustrated and is trying to ease that with this online relationship she's got going.
I'm not trying to make light of your problem, honestly. But I think you have a lot of positive interaction with her; far more than most of us here. I have a lot of hope for you; I still think if you hang in there, she's going to come around.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
