Quote: I really think that if you did the two things above, you would be in a much better state. Able to move forward- even when living in the same house
Thank you, your post was very helpful. I haven't let go of the old R yet. I'm not sure how to in my mind. I'm also not sure how to live in the same house. Anybody else have ideas on that?
Another 'fear' I have is her few friends that will support her, agree that she has suffered so much and is doing the right thing, that she deserves to be happy and have OM. I feel like that influence makes her resent me even more and makes reconciling less likely.