You missed the point of my post entirely. I wasn't seeking advice on my own sitch. I merely wanted you to consider that your wife might still "come around"? It might not be as long as 2 years from now either. You have a lot going for you that I did not and still do not. But I came around and so can your wife. I wasn't projecting anything. I just wanted to see if I might be able to give you a little bit of hope today as you have NEVER once told me to give up. Obviously that is not how you took my post so I am sorry. I had no intention of getting you all riled up.
At the end of the day Frank, you have to do what feels right for you. What you can live with. Whatever that decision turns out to be, you know I wish you all the best.