Thanks--some good reminders there. Alot of these things I have worked very hard on. I believe I am very different than I was before the bomb. I examined my contributions to the problems in our M and worked very hard on my "stuff". One thing that stood out was "making deposits in the love bank". I do that but I may not be making the right deposits. I have to remind myself of his love languages.
As for number 10--this is my biggest issue right now. I'm all for this, but he has no interest. He seems to want to be M but still free. I'm really stuck on this. He was somewhat like this pre-bomb, but it seems worse now.
I appreciate the list and will keep it for reference. The reminders are very helpful.
