Oh, man, you are having a tough day (week...month!)! So sorry you are going thru the crap. I hope this isn't unhelpful, but I'm not sure it's hopeless when your wife has actually SAID she valued and wanted the marriage. She just sounds very confused right now. I have never been in the situation where I was with a spouse that felt badly enough too want back in (yet ), so I was giving a call out to those who might have some advice in your sitch. Does your W just get scared when she gets called onto the carpet or does she really listen to you? How can you bring up the subject without guilt? OMG, I KNOW how hard it is to have your spouse pour out their heart to another when you are sharing the same house...saying they're 'just friends'!! Once again, I'd just love to hear from someone for PArob concerning what kinds of steps he can take (I can suggest detaching, leaving your anger at the door...that often just scares women, FYI, makes it harder to come to H in love). Other than that, I don't know.
), so I was giving a call out to those who might have some advice in your sitch. Does your W just get scared when she gets called onto the carpet or does she really listen to you? How can you bring up the subject without guilt? OMG, I KNOW how hard it is to have your spouse pour out their heart to another when you are sharing the same house...saying they're 'just friends'!! Once again, I'd just love to hear from someone for PArob concerning what kinds of steps he can take (I can suggest detaching, leaving your anger at the door...that often just scares women, FYI, makes it harder to come to H in love). Other than that, I don't know.
