Good. Now one other thing to ponder. What is the difference between this "needing to know" and the needing to know that leads to snooping, etc? Also, once again, so what if you do know? What will you change? More snooping? Kick her out? Yell more? File for D? None of those things are moving you towards your goal, so neither does knowing this...today. Tomorrow is a different day.
