One more thing from my talk with my W last night that may apply to you. It is a variation on a theme but... She told me that she felt she was always responsible for my happiness and if she did not say just the right thing, or act the right way, then I would not be happy and it was a terrible burden for her to carry all these years. I told her I understood that now. I bring this to you because your W may feel the same way and you need to be careful of how much she sees you down, and to what extent she thinks it's because of her.
