Thanks WTSI...I don't know about having my head screwed on straight, but I have to focus on clear goals and that seems to be one that I DO have control over. My W can be moody at certain times and believe me, it has tested my emotional detachment...but, she said something to me one day (or wrote it in a letter) that really made stop a realize something...she said she wasn't sure why she was moody (probably hormonal), but I shouldn't take it personally...she knows I think she's being cold and uncaring, but she's not...she figures that I am just more aware of her moods now. Yup, good point. Every time I see her down,upset, etc. I immediately think "aha, she must be thinking of OM!" Truth be told, she's always been moody. That's why I MUST not personalize her moods, etc...I can't if I want to remain sane.


"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu