Good, simple goal PArob.

I think I might steal yours for myself. While I did mention in my daily update today that I am still being sensitive to her normal criticisms/anger/etc., I had an extra thing to deal with the past few days: since she hurt her shoulder last week, and the pain wasn't improving by Fri., the doc put her on steroids. I understand those things can make one very moody. I should have detached from her bad moods as much as I have been working on detaching from everything else as well. I don't know what I look like, but she has said things, and I'm sure pouty faces from me when she gets moody isn't very attractive.

Also, it's interesting that I think we are opposite in how you and I cope through the week. Monday's are actually toughest for me because we go back to work, and are apart, and also, it's mostly been work where she has communicated with OM, and now I have no way of knowing whether she still is or not.

But at home, I feel much safer than in the past, because even if she is still having A, she will not use computer at home, so I know there is no contact on weekends, and we are together for the most part.

Sounds like you're doing a good job and you are very much like I was shortly after discovery, but you are doing all the right things now. You might be out of the woods far sooner than me because you're keeping your head screwed on tight.

Stay on target.


Crow Jane, Crow Jane, come 'on, I wanna know, how you love some man, but don't love me no mo'