How can I be detached and yet striving to fulfill her emotional needs at the same time?
Ah, the Catch-22! If I try to act the way I should have acted earlier in our marriage, it just pushes you away and turns you off, but if I "detach" and not get in your face, then aren't I just being the same lame inattentive bump-on-the-log husband that drove you to this in the first place?????
Hey guys, c'mon, will' ya?? There have only been of late only about 16 zillion posts on being detached yet lovingly supportive. Learn what it is instead of keeping this myth going and come onboard!
