Thank every one of you for your insight. It is extremely helpful to me and allows me to re-focus my efforts (on me!). Sometimes, the logic is overtaken by the heart and clouds my judgment, but at the end of the day, I know I can have no influence on her actions, emotions or moods. Now I just have to work towards moving it from theory to practice. NYS, I am actually reading the Lundberg book right now based upon an earlier suggestion you had made to GH I believe. So far it has proven very insightful. The other one that I am currently reading is the Five Love Languages.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
