Just want to drop by to lend you my support. I know we all have been hurt by our WAS's actions and tend to guard ourselves from further hurt. But, look on the bright side... it doesn't kill us to give our H's one more chance for him to prove that he wants to work on the M. If we don't, we may kick ourselves if the opportunity is lost. I don't know about your H, but some men may be dejected..ie ..in their heads "my wife doesn't want me anymore" and not try to pursue you again. You wouldn't want that right? The only negative in giving H the chance is that we may get hurt again, our egos bruised etc...AGAIN...we won't die from it. We are resilient gals!!!! And we can pick ourselves up then. But on the other hand...we may be on the path of building our marriage together....Just my 2 cents...
