I appreciate you typing out the timeframe like you did. So now I can see, this obviously takes a lot of time. You've been at this for years, literally. This only drives home the point all the more: patience. My H. has only been moved out 6 months, so it's most likely too soon to expect him to have worked through any issues and be in the mindset to come back. I admire you greatly for dealing with this for so long! Your H. obviously wants a chance. I really hope you can work things out. I'll keep checking back!
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
