If he is serious about making it up to you he will take those steps and see what happens. I agree. H has been calling me this past week. Telling me those few days he spent with me and slept with me made him want to work on our M. H tells me that he misses me. H also told me that he is tired of living the "new" life and wants to go back to the way we were. H stated: "Do you remember how I was when you first fell in love with me? Well that's what I'm now becoming." H said he has the feelings for me again, and yet he hasn't said I love you.
What H has been telling me are all of the things I wanted to hear from him in the past. And now that we've come to the point where I'm making the decision to work on our M or not I'm feeling kinda skeptical as to what H is telling me. Some of the things he has told me in the past and some of things he has told are new, i.e. I miss you, I like waking up to you in the morning. I'm taking my time making up my mind as to what I want becasue I want to make sure I make the right decision and H is rushing me (now I know how he felt).
H reminds me of the Boy Who Cried Wolf. I've heard I want to work on us/marriage so many times and I don't know if he is being 100% true this time.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years
