Wow! That's quite a list of positives! I enjoy reading things like this; it gives me hope.

Did your H. move out and then move back? If so, how long was he gone? I am sorry I am not more updated on your situation.

But, good for you and your H.!!! You are doing great by keeping your expectations to a minimum. Best to protect your heart right now until you're sure.

I wish you much love and happiness.

Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.