Hello Yoyo~ I agree a little with what you said: from outright telling you that he wants to come back into your life ; however, I'm treading really lightly now.

Last night he shown a few positive things:

a) Called to let me know he was going to be late from work
b) Called a little later to let me know he was still at work
c) Came home and wanted to just chit-chat with me (usually would avoid me)
d) Went to the store late at night for me
e) Initiates ML
f) Holds and cuddles me during the night
g) Has told me thank you's when I did something for him (in the past would only see it as doing my job for him)

So a few baby steps but I'm keeping it in my head that this could only be temporary. This time last year if he were to do some of the things listed I would have been doing backflips, but what one year of this back and forth can do to a person


M:43
H:37
D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his)
S: 10/2004
Bomb: 2/15/05
In/out of home
Living with OW #4
Talks of D for 2-1/2 years