I know; I am scared, too. Sometimes I still backslide all the way to being shocked and I can't believe this is my life right now.

I think our H's had to detach long ago. In my case, in order for H. to have an affair and keep it going, and all the horrible lying (I think back to July '05; worst month of my LIFE) and there is no way he could behave that way unless he had already detached from me. And even after doing so, I think he was still ridden with guilt, as he should be.

Be careful if you do decide to go into the city tomorrow...that's when the storm is coming!

Last edited by hopefloats7; 02/11/06 02:09 AM.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.