I know what you mean about the no feedback. It can be agonizing to think no one cares. Of course it's because we all tend to be up and down at the same time. I find I shouldn't give any advice when I'm feeling down.

So anyway try to focus on just the financial side of things with the house. It sucks that money issues can really bog down a M. I know that my only working part-time has been a real big reason my H feels he can't trust me as I haven't been pulling my weight financially. It's not as if I haven't tried to get a better job--just I'm in a competitive field and the job marked sucks now. I'm hoping to change this soon so I will see what my H's reaction will be.

I don't know about your M, but I was always the strong one in my M and I guess I never realized my H was not cut out to hold the burden for us both (even though in the beginning of our R it was just me working because my lovely Brit didn't have his work permit yet.)

Oh and here's a bit of bizarre news. Ken and Barbie may be getting back together after two years apart. Maybe there's hope for us all yet.


SuperStressed