Thanks hope- I appreciate your honesty. I think my problem right now is more with myself. He is blaming all of this on me, and i am allowing it b/c i am too afraid to stand up to him. This is what is making me feel worse...that i am letting this happen to me. I don't know what my problem is...i avoid confrontation at all costs. And anytime i try to stand up to him, he twists and turns it and holds me down. He totally blew our conversation this afternoon out of proportion by getting angry. I don't know why he was getting so pissed off. All i was trying to understand was how selling the house affects a potential D. Thats it. He got all mad about god knows what. And yes, he did turn it back on me...he does it all the time. He knows exactly which buttons of mine to push in order to get his way. I don't know he won't just say this is what he wants. He feels like he gave into what i wanted. He wanted the house sold in 2 years, with a 70/30 split (his favor of course). I wanted the house sold immediately, with a 50/50 split. What we came up with was the house sold in one year, with a 60/40 split. To me, that seems like a compromise...but maybe i'm crazy. I think he sees this as me just getting away with something...again. He feels like our M has always been about me and my needs. Which, i will say, is mostly true. I think he is trying to make up for it now by insisting that things are done his way. And when they aren't, he gets pissed. But i think he is equally pissed with himself. I don't know...i don't want to do this.
