I know how you are feeling. It's the limbo. It's tiring and frankly, annoying. You've been very patient. Now, you feel like it's time either you or your H. makes a move somehow, because nothing is changing either way and you aren't seeing any improvement with your situation. But please remember tonight all the DB'ing you have done and how far YOU have come, Imdi. Follow your instincts but don't make any decisions tonight. Listen to what your H says and then take that away with you, and think about it. Come back and post later and we will be there for you. Hugs...
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
