Hope- Here's the thing... When we went to the mediator, my H said that he wanted to wait 2 years to sell the house, which would have been in 2007. I asked that we wait only 1 year, as i would need the money from the sale of the house to live someplace else. Again, b/c i was under the impression that we were getting D. He agreed to this. Our interspousal agreement says that the house would be sold by November 2006. Back in October (2005), he sent me an email about the house, saying that if there was no improvement (with us), then the house would be sold in the spring b/c he couldn't afford to live there on his own, with no $$$ from me (our taxes went up almost $4000 last fall, thus increasing the monthly expenses). At that time, he also said that he hoped that if i did live there, then i would contribute $$$. Well, of course. Anyway, we didn't talk about it for a while. I think he feels that by selling it now, we are taking advantage of the spring market, which is always better.
I don't know where he plans on living if we sell it. Maybe with ow? I don't know. He hasn't said, and i haven't asked. Not like he'd tell me the truth anyway.
He just seems to go back and forth on things. I don't know what his intentions are. He will say we are getting D, and then call me telling me he misses me and asking me to spend the night at our house. I understand confusion, but he has got to clue me in that he is confused. And if he is, then we need to do something that will help clear up his confusion. Anyway, i am not looking forward to this tonight. The way i feel right now, i am afraid that i will lose it with him. Maybe thats what we need: a good screaming match. I don't know. Tonight could be very bad for me.
