Imdi, Because I care for you, I will be honest about how I see this. It seems to me that your husband is trying to turn everything around and put the blame on you for everything. He does not want to step up and take responsibility for the problems he has contributed. To appease his guilt, he is hoping to convince himself everything is your fault: the D, the selling of the house, and such. I don’t like how he is treating you or the situation, and I hope you protect yourself. Sign nothing. If he tries to force you to do that, tell him you need time to think. If he brings up selling again, ask him if he knows where he will move. Always remember that you are a wonderful person and he is the one with the issues here. Don’t take his blame game to heart. You’re waterproof tonight; let it all wash away, ok? Be strong and pleasant, but firm. Tough love! (I’m reading the book too)
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
