You don't have to sell it right now, esp. if there is no D. in the works.
That's the thing...i don't know if there is a D in the works. I guess i thought that the 2 would go hand in hand...if he files, then we sell. He's trying to tell me how he laid all of this out on the table back in September. Umm, no, he didn't. He told me the week before we were there that we needed to get D. So, how am i supposed to think that the D was still a maybe? I tried to explain that i was under the impression, when i said that i wanted to sell the house, that the D was inevitable, b/c that is how he presented it. Now, he is trying to say, i think, that my insistence on selling the house is accelerating the D process? What? If you don't want the D, then you don't do it, plain and simple. Since when does he care what i want? Now, all of sudden, he is blaming this on me? Makes no sense. Either he wants the D or he doesn't. And if he doesn't or isn't 100% sure, then he needs to do something to work on the M. God, he is so confusing. And i hate when he gets all high and mighty. I just wish he could have a conversation about this without getting pissed off. I have bad feeling about tonight...there may be a war.
