Sorry to hear about your H's desire to sell. (And that he's being a big meanie to you.) Maybe you can tell him that you've been very stressed out by work and would like to delay making any major financial decisions for a little while. That way you can enter this discussion with your H with a clear head.
Is it not possible to link the sale of your house to a D actually being finalized? That way you don't have to do anything now if you don't want to. When you see your H tonight I would let him bring up the topic of selling. And if he does bring it up, try not to let him push your buttons.
