I'm pissed off at my H's two OW too but I know in the end he's going to get tired of them and dump them on their butts. (It happened to his girlfriend before me and it happened to OW#1 so it must be a matter of time before he does it to OW#2.) That's the only thing that keeps me sane. I've realized probably too late that my H has a bit of a pattern of getting attached to women at work (yes I worked with my H at one point) and then once he has them completely he dumps them on their asses. I guess I just took longer than the others so he had to marry me.