Imdi, I sure wish I knew how to advise you, but I don’t! Your H. does a lot of things/says a lto of things that mine does not, so I have no familiarity with a spouse acting this way. I can empathize with your confusion though. I think you handled the conversation very well, considering what was being said. Do you feel that because he had a few drinks he was more open to speaking to you like that? I have to say I don’t envy you this; hearing those things from your WAH and then still having him want a D. or sell the house or what have you would certainly be enough to confuse me till no end. I think you are doing very well today in spite of what happened! Just keep hanging in there and reassuring him of how you feel, but only when he initiates the topic, as you did. Great job.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
