These two last posts are so pivotal in my understanding of all this, or lack thereof. We all DB through all this but so far as I know, we are not told when, or even if, there will come a time to stop DB and just do what seems natural and STRONGLY encourage our WAS to come back and work on our M. When faced with feelings from them like this, do they expect/want us to just reach out and grab them back into the R? It's like (pardon the racing analogy, I'm not even a racing guy) drafting the entire race and never making your move. Sure, you are using the winning strategy but without the pure, aggressive driving that is not so much strategy but instinct, you are destined to finish somewhere other than first. I am facing this with my W right now and look toward Tim and others as to what may happen when we interpret things the wrong way and go for it too soon. I have come to the conclusion that is pretty obvious; there are no universals. So I guess it's up to us to figure out when it's time to break from the pack and run. That's a pretty scary thought to me. I bet you too.
