Imdi,

That was SOME little exchange.
I think you did great if your goal was to remain detached in this situation. Of course, I, like you, would wonder if this was an opening to do/say more.
I think you said the right things. You can't help but get drawn in by those words from him.
Has he done this before? If so, had he been drinking when he did?
Just re-reading it, doesn't it just make you want to simply reach through the phone, grab his shoulders and shake him, screaming "If you love me so much, then damnit, let's stop all this and be together!!!!"
You should know that I only wish I would handle that situation as well as you did. I think you showed strength AND love. I don't know how much more you could have done.
As usual, I hope this is the beginning of something better for you Imdi!

GH


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