I notice the same thing with my H, anytime he acts in a way that makes me hopeful or feel positive, I can bet that soon thereafter he will act wierd, sometimes even cold. I guess from what you read that that is common? I will check that book out, never read it. I understand what you mean when you say you are tired of all of this b/c I am too. It is unfair that we should be treated this way, regardless of the reasons behind it. I am going to post on a new thread about the crap that went down today with my H, if you can check it out. Right now I am feeling like filing for a D just to bring all of this to its breaking point. But I am sure I will change my mind tomorrow.
