I think our WASs find something, anything to use as an excuse against us. My H is an expert at twisting things around so that when he's done something wrong I'm still somehow the bad guy. For my part I've realized that I need to stop protecting him--very hard for me as I'm the oldest and that's what I do best.
I know you've gone back and forth on the ML issue with your H. Somehow I doubt your H had you come over just to have sex. That said, you can't let yourself read too much into this. Your H is confused and while he might want to come back it's still too overwhelming for him.
I must say I'm very jealous. Now that my H has decided we need to move forward with a D and wants a separation agreement I'm sure he's read that we have to be apart for at least a year with not a single incident of cohabitation or of sex before we can file. Which means I'm cut off .
Oh, and as if you didn't already know, I hate this too.
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