Imdi, Seems like both our H’s are confusing the heck out of us this week. I need to clarify your situation so I truly understand it: your H. had an affair with someone, and during your separation you had a male friend but nothing happened with him, yet your H. believes something did, is that right? And now your H. has o.w. I just don’t understand where he gets off saying he needs you to pay for something you didn’t even do…and yet HE is the one who had an affair first. This makes me mad for you. Before I post anything else I’ll let you reply back, so that I know I have the story right. Just try to relax and get through the day; we’ll talk here. Hugs, Hope
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
