First, hugs to you too. I know how disappointed you must feel not seeing your H for your weekly visit. It sucks that they have such power over our emotions.
As I'm feeling in the dumps today too I don't know what advice I can give you. I guess I've just decided to leave things to fate. If our M is meant to be then things will endure. If not, then we will eventually learn to move on and be happy.
Of course, don't think for a moment that the next time I go to our apartment that I will be putting several Feng Shui cures to work.
Oh, and to answer an earlier question, I was living in Old Town Alexandria with my H but now I'm staying in Arlington between Ballston and Clarendon.