Mike-
I never saw that movie...perhaps i will rent it tonight...give me something to do on another exciting Friday night (note the sarcasm). But, thats how i feel...that my H and I have all of this history...how can he just throw it away. I do use that to my advantage when i am with him...bringing things up, that only make sense to him and I, so that he will remember the good things. I don't know if it works.

Thank you for your response. Sorry to find you here.