Hey TTS-
When i was reading what you wrote about your WAH, i thought, "gee that sounds a lot like me." I will admit, although i am not proud of it, that i never worked at my M, b/c i didn't realize that M took work. Yes, stupid, i know. But, i never had to work for anything in my life...unfortunately, i continued that trend. It took some time and soul-searching to realize it, but i did. And i've tried to explain it to my H...i just don't know if he doesn't care or doesn't believe me when i say that things will be better. I know that i made plenty of mistakes, but i've learned from them. Isn't that part of a marriage? I just wish it wasn't so easy for him to walk-away....i'm not a pair of damn shoes that he can return for god sakes!