Quote: What happened to "til death do us part?" I just don't understand how someone can just walkaway, to somebody else, especially, when they vowed to be faithful and to love forever. I guess, in my case, forever got a lot shorter.
I know. It's unreal. The ass just said he was doing what he thought he was SUPPOSED TO DO. You know, because you're SUPPOSED to marry someone you're not in love with. Dumb, dumb, dumb.
Quote: And it makes me think...are these just things that every couple faces. And if so, then what makes them think that it will be any different with their OP's?
I think that people like our WASs are a different breed. In my case, the ass has never really had to work hard to get anything. He grew up, he was given things, he lived at home for a long time, then there was me... i took care of him. He doesn't know how to deal with things when they get tough or when he has to make an effort, so he just doesn't make an effort. It's like their ability to deal with things when they're not sunny and rosey is broken... I'm prattling... I just think that they spend a lot of time thinking about what they think the want and what they think the deserve and they don't realize that everyone has to work to get those things... they're not just handed over on a silver platter, or in a tight pair of jeans and a hippie shirt. sorry. just saying is all. every relationship requires work. our WASs just aren't willing to put it in.
OK. i'm talking nonsense... i'll try again tomorrow.
