About an hour or so; it depends on the traffic. If you want to meet us, ask Sassy to tell you how to get to the restaurant; it’s actually not in my town, but near where she’ll be staying. We’d love to see you. Your thread title brought tears to my eyes; are you ok today? I do feel the same way a lot of the time, Imdi. Lately I’m suspecting that my H. may be staying with o.w., possibly living with her and I don’t know if I should confront him and ask, or just stay quiet. What do you think? I value your opinion very much. I’m still trying to claw my way out of the sadness, too, Imdi. We’ve gotta stick together, ok? Tell me, are you making any plans for what you might do, should things not work out with your H? I think it is essential that we at least have some idea of what we’ll do, where we’ll go. I’m not trying to be pessimistic, but we cannot remain in limbo forever. I look at it this way: my R. with my H. is on life support. He is too cowardly to pull the plug; I might end up having to do it. Post again soon; let me know how you are.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
