"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
lurker here, but I had to say something. Pardon if this is a bit blunt. But, is that happy trigger on both sides? If so, your W would be the first woman that I know of that reaches O more easily with less sex. If not, then I'm not at all sure why the ML sessions are rushed. Quite the disincentive for your W, I'd say. Unless you know otherwise, I'd expect your W to require 2-3 times as long to reach O (yes, like over an hour, and not of intercourse) in the absence of regular sex with the odds of O happening during intercourse practically nil. If you think I'm wrong, then I think she's faking. And yes, women can fake all those aspects of O that men don't think they can, the ability to kegel doesn't disappear during the act. There is no man I've talked to that doesn't think he can tell when a woman is faking (and that they don't fake with him) and no woman I've talked to that doesn't fake. Again, please pardon the bluntness, but I lived in a SSM with XH for too long and the intermittent sex was totally unrewarding and created huge resentment. If you do it at all, then take the time to do it well and purchase the tools to do so if necessary. (And no, I don't mean the tool you already have )
LOL, in actuality, it really does end well for both parties, I tend to make sure I take care of others before myself...thanks for the input!
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
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