For what its worth, we don't really sleep together mainly becasue she works at night during the week, but usually on the weekends we do, depending I suppose. As for ML, we still do, but not nearly as regularly as we used to. Its very sporadic now and usually very rushed....seems as though you get a happy trigger after a few weeks
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