Well GH, looks like you and I will have to work on finding the center again, lol.

My W has been sleeping on the couch all afternoon, she has to work a 12 hour shift tonight. She complained to me earlier when I was on the phone with her that I wasn't letting her sleep...hmmm, guess the 20 minute phone call to OM didn't interfere with that, did it. But then again, I doubt he was badgering her about what she was going to do in life....(p.s., I don't like him very much).

OK sarcasm off, its much too negative and I do not want to spread negativity around, just venting. In any event, I'm still up in the air, but I guess its important to be a good person. If I have any chance of saving this M, I cannot burn bridges and must be a better person. At the very least, I must be a better person for me and the girls.

GH. Remember, lets try to focus here....the positive is, she gave you a nice hug. You're not living in the moment, but now you're looking towards Sunday and letting that ruin your day

"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu