I have to tell you GH, that pretty much sums up my sitch right now. Financially, we are really bad...the kids are always a handful, no matter what. I mean they are older, but its always something to do you know.

The fact is, you both chose this life. Both my W and I contributed to the financial sitch, we both had the girls. I mean when I went alien, none of the mattered...it wasn't about that at all.


"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu